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Does mindfulness make you lazy?
What’s the relationship between mindfulness, motivation, and performance? Here, we explore the findings of an interesting study.
Dealing with imposter phenomenon
Imposter phenomenon is a psychological construct in which we doubt our competency or do not feel deserving of our accomplishments . . . [It] can be debilitating and is certainly one way in which people may get in their own way. It can lead to burnout, anxiety, or depression - and is also linked to a decrease in risk-taking behavior, which isn’t always a good thing in business or athletics . . . Luckily, there are several proven strategies for overcoming imposter phenomenon.
A mindful strategy for facing setbacks
Moving towards a goal seldom follows a straight line. There are obstacles and detours that may force us to question our ability to get to the finish line. If the setbacks keep coming and the path feels increasingly difficult, we may even consider dropping the goal entirely.
This particular circumstance, when we’re weighing the possibility of either pressing on or giving up, is called an “action crisis”. We are conflicted between our desire to accomplish this goal and our readiness for the uncomfortable challenges to be over.
Creating your legacy
I strongly believe that each of us has a responsibility to make this place a little bit better. It’s not about dramatically changing the world. It’s not about beating a record or creating a fortune. Sure, those objectives can be part of it. But, I encourage you to focus on how you make other people feel. Does your story inspire? Do you challenge people to think? Do you help people feel seen? Those footprints will leave a much deeper impression in the ground.
7 questions to ask yourself every night
The best of the best are committed to excellence every single day. They rise in the morning with intention, divide their day into deliberate, task-focused segments, and close each day with reflection. Wash, rinse, repeat . . . The reflection period is critical. It accelerates growth because it creates space for small adjustments in how you show up the next day. Reflection is an opportunity for feedback - the kind you don’t have to wait for because it arises from within. If you don’t take the time to assess your performance on a regular basis, then it’ll be difficult to course correct later.
The importance of unfocusing
There’s a huge emphasis placed on focus and an under appreciation for the value of unfocusing. As is the case with almost everything in life, balance is key. Our brain functions best when it alternates between focused states and unfocused states, and there’s a way to do that effectively.
Focus your gaze and your mind will follow
Our lives flow directly out of how we view the world. So, it behooves us to pay attention to what we choose to focus on. When we ruminate over problems and see every challenge as a roadblock instead of an opportunity, then our brain filters out positive experiences and selectively attends to negative or difficult stimuli. Where we direct our gaze communicates to our brain which type of information is salient and which type can be ignored. In a very real sense, we create our reality by resting our gaze in a particular direction.
How mantras promote a quiet mind
The use of affirmations or mantras is universal, spanning across cultures and implemented across all sectors of society. Athletes often use them to hone their focus, increase their confidence, or dial-up their intensity. Diana Nyad relied on the mantra “find a way” during her record-breaking 112-mile swim from Florida to Cuba. After 4 unsuccessful attempts spanning over 30 years, she decided to implement this mantra while training for her final attempt. Of course, it wasn’t those 3 words alone that brought her feet to the sandy shore, but they certainly propelled her through the brutal challenges she encountered at sea.
Patience in the brain
Recently, my patience has been tested, particularly as it applies to life as a whole. . .Maybe it’s because so much has been put on hold the past 2 years, but it’s become increasingly more difficult to remain rooted in the here and now instead of leaping ahead to wanting what comes next. . .So, what’s going on in my brain? Where does patience “live” in this beautiful organ of mine (yours is beautiful too)?
Change begins with awareness
Change requires awareness. You have approximately 70-80,000 thoughts a day, but how many of those thoughts are you actually aware of? How many of those thoughts have intention behind them? How many of those thoughts are repetitive (answer: most of them)? Awareness takes a lot of work, but you are fully capable of cultivating it. It just takes practice.
Once a dancer, always a dancer
One of the greatest privileges of my career is witnessing an athlete’s arc over time and how they manage the transitions inherent to any athletic career. Whether the transition is from high school to college, from good to great, or from playing to retiring, it always contains a mixture of resistance, lessons, and opportunities for growth.
My word for 2022
Do you have a word for 2022? Or have you heard of people setting a word for their year? I abandoned resolutions years ago and hopped on the ‘word’ bandwagon instead - and I’m much happier here. My word of the year serves as my North Star, a point of focus around which I can orient my life. It’s a quality that I want to manifest, exude, and experience more of - and aligning my actions with it contributes to my growth.
The value of a pre-performance routine
Anyone who performs consistently well at a high level implements a pre-performance routine. The stakes are just too high to leave the mental component of performance up to chance. So, let’s borrow a page from their playbook and create our own pre-performance routines.
Finding center with mental anchors
We’ve all been caught up in life’s chaos (heck, this probably happens on the daily), so we intimately know how this feels. Our mind is scattered, all of our mental tabs are open, and we’re buzzing at an unsustainable speed. Although we may feel like we’re spinning out of control, we actually have quite a bit of agency over each moment. Instead of continuously getting carried away by the current of life and all its demands, we have ample opportunity to come back to center - that place of permanent inner stillness that allows us to reconnect to our purpose, clarify our path, and execute efficient and effective action steps. Mental anchors are short practices that quiet the mind, help us regain control, and allow us to focus on what’s important now.
Don’t just stand there, bust a move: The art of waiting
Waiting is inherent to living. Unfortunately, in this age of instant gratification, our patience is often tested. If you’re waiting anxiously and complaining about the process, then you’re missing out on the richness of those in-between moments. Plus, waiting fortifies the mind - and isn’t that partly why we’re here? To gain some mental strength and grow as humans? Let’s explore the benefit of waiting on mental strength and the art of waiting well.
Building resilience through movement
The good news is that resilience is not a trait that you either have or you don’t. It’s a mental skill that can be strengthened through practice and over time. Let’s look at the resilient brain and then explore how it can be fortified by doing something that most of us love - moving.
A love letter to movement
I remember the early days.
Riding a tricycle around the black top at my preschool by the sea.
Doing the Mexican Hat Dance with my first dance teacher and my toddler brother chasing me.
Taking my first ballet class at 8 and performing in more Nutcrackers than I can remember.
Crushing the competition in the 4x100 relay at my elementary school’s Olympic Day.
The freedom.
The joy.
How to rewire your brain to focus on the good
Fact: We pay more attention to negative elements in our environment than positive ones. There’s a good reason for this. The negativity bias evolved to help us survive in harsh conditions. Unfortunately, in today’s world, our overemphasis and heightened focus on negative elements is detrimental to our health. The good news is we can take advantage of neuroplasticity and rewire our brain.
Feel into your “why” to stay motivated
Articulating your why is necessary for maintaining steadfast motivation and for getting through the tough days (or seasons). Purpose is directly correlated with drive. And drive, as we know, is directly correlated with success - however you define that. . . You have been forced to step back from your sport in one way or another - and with that separation comes the opportunity for clarity. Why do you do what you do?
Show up anyway: A request during this pandemic
Feel all the feels and show up anyway. That’s resilience . . . Every single one of us has something to offer. It may not be a colossal sacrifice, it may not be a grand philanthropic gesture, and it certainly doesn’t have to be perfect. But, you have something to offer and that’s what the world needs right now. Whether you’re carrying a torch on the front lines of this pandemic, or you’re holding a single match that only illuminates the space around you, your light is needed.